At the beginning of this journey, you just want to pay the bills and not live check to check, stop borrowing from family and be able to breathe for one minute. Then you move from that season to a season where you might be making a little money now and you are anxious about growth, and you think, will this be sustainable? Next comes financial freedom and you have plenty but now are afraid that something will happen and you’ll lose it all. Sound familiar?
Did you know money has energy?
Have you heard of the Universal Law of Compensation? It means whatever you give of your heart you get back tenfold.
Did I just hear you say, “Not for me”! I get it. You give, give and give and believe and believe and nothing changes, but are you really doing the right work? What does your inner mean girl say about money?
So what’s happening? Why are you still anxious about money?
Money-worth is something that I spent quite some time working through in my own life. I’ve actually worked this to death. LOL… When you lose everything, it’s easy to stay in a fear mindset. But I’m not a victim of my thoughts and fears. I’m in control. Say it with me!
I. Am. In. Control.
The Universal Laws – all 12 of them, work on vibration. That is why the Law of Attraction is so famous and often works. Whatever your energy is vibrating at will also be attracted towards you. This is why sometimes the Law of Attraction falls flat. What you think about you bring about. Believe me when I say this, whatever you say the Universe will listen; this includes what you’re saying internally. Make Sense?
You’ve heard me say, your thoughts are energy and as such those thoughts create your world and your reality.
If you are taking action towards not being fearful of money, regarding obtaining and or losing it, then let us dive deeper.
I did not create everything below. It’s an accumulation of what has helped me along with a few points of my own. It really helped me dissect my “why am I being triggered by money” and develop a space of abundance and not lack.
Here we go!
1: Get to know your money story.
What are the things your mother and father said about money? How does your culture perceive money and how do you feel about money and further how do you feel about your worth? Write it all out and observe yourself within it.
Do you say things like:
– It’s not all about the money.
– Money comes and goes.
– I can’t afford…
– I buy things on sale.
– I’d love to go on vacation, but I need to work to earn a living.
– Money is the root of all evil.
Do you find yourself feeling jealous and triggered by others wealth?
The thing is, this is lack mentality, and these sorts of thoughts stop you from connecting with your own abundance. Let us shift those thoughts, shall we?
– Money allows me to experience life more fully and as a spiritual being having a human experience that is what I am here to do.
– Money flows effortlessly to me.
– What I offer creates abundance.
– I value myself and my work.
– I am grateful for all I can do. I am abundant in this life with creative power, joy, and experience.
Can you feel the difference in the energy of the two ways of thinking?
2: Become the master of the money you have.
I’ve said many times; you will gain control in the chaos if you take a role in your financial future. What is happening in your finances? What does the business provide, what do you invest, where is the money coming from and where is it going?
Know your bank account inside out, understand your bills, your debts and work out a plan to pay for everything. What you pay attention to grows so really get to know your own situation.
3: Work out how much money you need.
To pay your bills, service your debts and do everything else you want to. All of it, down to the groceries and fuel.
4: Decide what you want to earn on top of that.
5: Have an idea of what you will use it for.
Remember money is energy, and it needs to flow, to have purpose; so giving it one is really important.
6: Call in the amount you want.
“I am easily receiving…….. right now”. Then feel into this mantra with the energy of curiosity and love. You don’t know how, but you know its happening, you’re excited and interested.
7: Make sure you have the infrastructure in place to support your money goal.
There is no point in calling $20k a month into your life if there is no way the business can currently achieve this. I believe we MUST put actions behind our desires. Manifesting is fantastic, but you still have work to do. If this is the case for you, start working towards creating a space of growth.
If you own your own business, try building your list, connecting with clients, growing your visibility so that this goal comes closer and closer until you do have everything in place practically. It’s about taking action.
If you do not own your business and you are the support system for your entrepreneur then you can:
– Ask how you can get involved to help get closer to the goal.
– Speak positive energy over the business.
– Release the love-hate relationship with the business. “IT” is not doing anything to you. The business is not taking your husbands time, your money, or any of the other negative things we attach to it. “IT” is not human. The business is a vessel in which you are trying to build a legacy. You and your husband steer the ship. This is where complete responsibility comes into place.
8: Some things you will need to give up to the Universe.
If a situation is indeed out of your control, release it. If you cannot do anything about it, there is no point to sit and stress over it, right?
9: Let go of how and when this will happen. If not, you’re headed for an Expectation Hangover for sure.
These are details, step fully into trust here.
10: Know you are entirely supported in your desires by the Universe. God wants us to succeed. I promise!
11: Be open. Open your heart and let go of past beliefs that are no longer serving you.
12: Practice Gratitude.
Gratitude is the vibration of love and will lift the energy. Remember, the Law of Attraction, like attracts like, so be in your highest vibration.
Unpack YOUR money story, and write a new one. You have the ability to create the life of your dreams. You got this! I believe in you!